Learn the Signs of Child Grooming and Sexual Abuse

A GROOMER OR SEXUAL ABUSER OFTEN:

  • Displays obvious preferential treatment of the child
  • Is overly affectionate/flirtatious with the child
  • Repeatedly spends time in private spaces with the child
  • Befriends the child through interests (like video games)
  • Works to become a close friend to the family
  • Makes visits to the child’s home
  • Drives the child to activities
  • Acts as the child’s confidante
  • Engages the child in keeping secrets
  • Manipulates the child with gifts or favors
  • Makes off-color remarks to/in front of the child
  • Sends emails/texts/direct messages to the child without other adults on the thread
  • Gradually desensitizes the child by filming/photographing them outside of the scope of their job
  • Shares sexual stories or content with the child
  • Exposes a child to pornography, drugs, or alcohol
  • Other children may suspect an improper relationship and make jokes or references about it to others

What to Watch For

When Children Are Present:

  • Pay extra attention when the child is present
  • Demand that an ATTENTIVE parent can see or hear the child at all times, both on-set and off
  • Prevent the child from exposure to alcohol, drugs, and pornographic or sexual content/stories/comments
  • DON’T TOUCH KIDS. (If it is an unavoidable part of your job, always have a parent and a Studio Teacher present. If your job requires touching kids below the neckline or under clothing, ask the parent to perform that portion of the task.)
  • Don’t meet or communicate one-on-one with the child

How to Report